I get asked it all the time. So, Erin, am I dateable?   What does it even mean to be dateable? Most of us think of being dateable as being a good catch. Having a lot to offer. Having our shit together. A nice mix of successful,...

For those of you who are new here, tonight’s message is for singles and couples alike, and for your single friends, and for your couple friends, which is basically everyone except for your children, at least until they are no...

We hear it all in an average workday. Today we thought we’d share a few of our most and least talked about reasons clients come to us to jumpstart their dating lives. You may be surprised! Saving Time: One of my favorite calls...

Today I’m going to talk to you about the big difference between meeting online or through a matchmaker, and meeting in the wild. I call it reverse engineering. Full disclosure, I am not an engineer. Not in the academic sense,...

You know what is extra dumb? What no one of us wants to feel ever? What is super inconvenient and awful and confusing? I'll tell you what; mad, sad or not glad feelings around someone we love and appreciate, who means the world...

I read an interesting statistic this morning. Over thirty percent of online daters don’t ever go on a date with the people they are interacting with on the apps. What does that even mean? Well for starters, it means that if you...

What do we do when someone we care about, our bestie, our bro, our sister, our parent, our child (may the good great All Mighty spare us!!!) is dating, falling for, or permanently attached by the holy bonds of matrimony to...

Through her veil the room is softened, the lilies dusted eyelet white. Candles glimmer, expectant faces embrace her. She is captured in sepia, ethereal and soft, gliding toward him lifted by wings. He waits, solemn, her soldier....

So much attention around dating and relationship goes to the Red Flag. The warning signs that we shoulda woulda coulda paid attention to – but didn’t. And then it was a year or five or twenty later and we were belly crawling out...

Don’t measure by end results.   For the love of all things good and beautiful, don’t wait for your Eulogy to give yourself some credit. I’m sure that you are doing some amazing things right now. Like tracking for CEO, or...

Have I ever told you about the time when my youngest was in preschool, yes preschool, and developed this crush on a boy in her class? Is that young for crushing? Well if it is, it runs in the family, because I can remember my...

This is for you if you are engaging in some online dating and want to up your game, OR if you know someone who is, OR if you would enjoy some entertainment this fine Monday in solidarity with your dating friends and allies....