dateable provides matchmaking and relationship coaching for executives and professionals

I get asked it all the time. So, Erin, am I dateable?   What does it even mean to be dateable? Most of us think of being dateable as being a good catch. Having a lot to offer. Having our shit together. A nice mix of successful,...

A client of mine sent me this beautiful book as a gift, full of 'gentle reminders'. It reminded me of the kind of passionate, loving, and very very true messages I send to my clients after sessions where they pour out their...

Imagine going on a date with someone who is already excited to meet you? You know that what you have to offer is the stuff that makes them swoon. Imagine that you feel the same way! Kind of like being pre-approved for a low...

For those of you who are new here, tonight’s message is for singles and couples alike, and for your single friends, and for your couple friends, which is basically everyone except for your children, at least until they are no...

If you are going to fix your relationship, or go about creating a good one from scratch, you are going to have to "give up" a thing that you cherish. What!!!??? You say...that does not sound good! And it does not, in fact, sound...

It’s okay to HOPE. Nothing will explode. Kittens WILL NOT be set on fire. You won’t fall through a hole at the bottom of the earth reserved especially for the weak and pathetic because you harbour a belief that something you...

Today I’m going to talk to you about the big difference between meeting online or through a matchmaker, and meeting in the wild. I call it reverse engineering. Full disclosure, I am not an engineer. Not in the academic sense,...

You know what is extra dumb? What no one of us wants to feel ever? What is super inconvenient and awful and confusing? I'll tell you what; mad, sad or not glad feelings around someone we love and appreciate, who means the world...

So much attention around dating and relationship goes to the Red Flag. The warning signs that we shoulda woulda coulda paid attention to – but didn’t. And then it was a year or five or twenty later and we were belly crawling out...

I read an interesting statistic this morning. Over thirty percent of online daters don’t ever go on a date with the people they are interacting with on the apps. What does that even mean? Well for starters, it means that if you...

Today I want to talk to you about the power of moving in the direction of something that matters to you, even when you think you can’t even think about it.   You can’t think about it without all of the obstacles appearing...

Have I ever told you about the time when my youngest was in preschool, yes preschool, and developed this crush on a boy in her class? Is that young for crushing? Well if it is, it runs in the family, because I can remember my...