elite matchmaking for professionals and executives in nyc and accross the united states

dateable is the right way to do matchmaking and get off the apps with smart dating

Modern dating is hard. At Dateable, we’ve created a better way.

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Matchmaking services that cater to your needs to help you find that special needle in a haystack.

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D.matchmaking:

Our Philosophy

Curated Opportunity • Elite connections  • concierge service

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Curated Opportunity • Multi-Platform Integration • Comprehensive

At Dateable we know that modern dating is fundamentally broken; dating apps are not designed to build lasting relationships. And that’s not your fault, we’ve almost all used them, but impersonal subscription-based services aren’t engineered to produce resolution.

You know what you want, but finding it is a time-intensive, vicious cycle.

Everyone knows that a first date is not the place to grill someone with invasive question about ‘dealbreakers,’ so we dance the dance and talk the talk.

And hey, you might really hit it off. But if those inevitable conversations don’t go well, it’s hard accepting that the person you’ve invested weeks or maybe months in just isn’t going to work, no matter how smitten you are. Or worse, they misrepresent their true desires, perhaps even inadvertently, to keep things alive in hopes you might bend eventually.

You don’t have to waste all of this time and unnecessary letdown building up to those big questions; kids, religion, retirement, etc, just to find out that there was never any real chance to begin with.

This is where we come in.

BLIND VETTING

It’s okay to be picky, but too much choice is its own problem. Endless possibilities often leave us inundated, not empowered. At Dateable you keep total control, but we do all of the hard work.

We spend the time vetting and interviewing clients about their goals, desires, and preferences immediately. This process ensures  alignment and that there is no room for misrepresentation.

We’re never going to ask you to go on a blind date, but the beauty of the process is that we assess compatibility prior to setting introductions. This means that we know exactly what our clients and Passive Network members want. Only after we ask these questions and assess the key pillars of alignment do we begin sharing potential match details and setting introductions.

 

THE PASSIVE NETWORK

We started with matchmaking for executives in New York, and over the years, we’ve expanded to include most major cities in the US, as well as select international population centers.

Our Passive Network, with over ten thousand elite singles in New York and across the world is what allows us to find your perfect match. We’re not playing a game of musical chairs, limited to matching a few select clients with one and other. Instead your matches are frequent, compatible, and only the highest quality.

The Passive Network enables us to maintain a dynamic base of quality singles that we have interviewed and vetted for the benefit of our clients. Meanwhile, those who aren’t in a position to commit to a full contract are able to join Dateable risk free.

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Packages beginning at 10K, subject to selected services and contract length. 

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Packages beginning at 10K, subject to selected services and contract length. 

D.Curated:

Custom Matchmaking

À la carte • Multi-Platform Integration • Individualized

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À la carte • Multi-Platform Integration • Individualized

This completely customizable package includes at its base level:

  • Your Strategic Intake Session, Dateable Discovery and Custom Profiling
  • Active searching by your Dateable matchmaker across our active client base and Passive Network
  • Interviewing and Blind Vetting of every match prospect for curated introductions and maximal compatibility
  • Post match feedback and review, and 12 dating support calls   

Enhanced services are always available a la carte to ensure each client we recieves a robust, personalized package that offers the most impactful resources to support their unique needs. 

Choose from an array of:

  • Private coaching options
  • Image consultation, personal styling, and professional photography
  • Our suite of Dateable Relationship and Marriage Readiness programs, extended geographic search and extended hold flexibility 

Take control and build an elite matchmaking package with us today. 

Packages beginning at 10K, subject to selected services and contract length. 

“I cannot believe how much better my life is – all of the pieces have been put back together.”

– “J” NFL FRANCHISE OWNER –

“Erin is our secret weapon. The strategy session has been our favorite go to for our high profile and celebrity clients, both to clarify their needs but also prepare them for a successful process, and to bring a force of insight to the team. We love hearing how seen and heard they feel, and how much more confident in their path forward they present after this process!”

– K.M. HEAD OF CLIENT SERVICES –

“I was so moved by how well she understood me that I knew I needed her in my relationship corner, and with her insightful guidance and support I am proud to say that I am now engaged to be married.”

– A.S. FOUNDER & CEO –

D.Concierge:

Comprehensive Matchmaking

All-inclusive • Multi-Platform Integration • Comprehensive

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All-inclusive • Multi-Platform Integration • Comprehensive

For the client who enjoys the crème de la crème, this is our luxe package. We include all of our essential features; your Strategic Intake Session, Dateable Discovery and Profiling, active searching by your Dateable matchmaker across internal and external networks, interviewing and vetting of match prospects, curated introductions, post match feedback and review, and 12 dating support calls.  

We layer onto this:

  • VIP featured profiling at your discretion
  • 12 private coaching sessions with our head coach
  • 3 crisis cards (jump the queue, 45 minute call for those situations that just can’t wait)
  • Dedicated attention with our VIP matchmaker and unlimited access to our suite of Relationship and Marriage Readiness programs
  • Online dating support at your discretion
  • Customizable image consultation and styling with our VIP third party stylist
  • Personal Profiling session with a professional photographer  

All one year contracts include an option to place your contract on hold for up to three months, in order to pursue a romantic opportunity, or for personal reasons.    

All concierge packages are application only to ensure a mutual fit.

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