Dip your toes in the water with…
The Passive Network.
Not everyone is ready to hire a matchmaker. But everyone can benefit from knowing one.
The Passive Network is Dateable’s private pool of vetted singles. These are men and women we’ve spoken to, screened, and kept in mind for the right opportunity. It’s free to join, only takes a few minutes to get started, and there’s no obligation to meet anyone you’re not totally excited about.
We won’t be searcing on your behalf. You’re not hiring us. But if someone exceptional is looking for what you bring to the table, your lifestyle, values, age, relationship goals, and of course your dazzling, amazing good looks.. we’ll reach out, send you a profile, and if need be, have another quick chat to further confirm alignment. That’s it.
You’re not just a name in a database. You’ve been vetted as a potential match, and we’ve gotten to know personally.
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More than a form… More than a list
What it is, and what it isn’t.
Everyone in the Passive Network has an intake call with our team. That’s where we get to know you and assess if you are a good fit. We’ll ask about your values, goals, what you’re open to, and what you’re absolutely not.
There’s no secret pitch, and you won’t need to prepare anything. The conversation is casual and confidential, but it’s how we ensure that when a potential match appears, we’re not winging it. We’ve done the work ahead of time.
By joining, you’re not committing to anything beyond the initial intake process (though we’d love it if you do). You’re simply raising your hand. It’s that easy.
And if you’re strapped for time, you can fill out a form for now, and save the intake for a later date. That said, the more we know about you now, the easier it is to match you with clients. An intake meeting and internal vetting is mandatory prior to setting any introductions.
the fine print, without the fine print
Unwritten Rules (that we actually wrote down).
We’ll never pressure you to meet someone who isn’t a fit. All that’s expected is a polite no. That said, when you agree to a date, we expect you to follow through.
We’re not volunteers, and this is not a social club. Each introduction takes time, care, and effort, not just on our part, but on yours, too. Respecting that process means respecting the people involved.
This isn’t the apps. Please no ghosting. No vanishing. No perpetual “oops, I forgot.” You’re dealing with real people who are investing real time, just like you. Showing up is part of the deal.
When we say “show up,” we mean emotionally too. Be open. Be curious. Be kind. You don’t need to force chemistry, but you should treat the process with the same sincerity you’d want in return.
That said, we’re human. We get it. Flights are delayed. Kids get sick. Life happens. Just let us know, and we’ll handle it. If you’re unreliable, disrespectful, or rude, however? Well, that’s a different story.
We care deeply about our clients. If someone puts themselves out there, they deserve more than a shrug in return.
And the more engaged you are, the better this works. When you give thoughtful feedback about what felt right and what didn’t, it makes the next introduction sharper. You’re helping us fine-tune the process, and that makes everyone happier, faster.
Be someone we’re proud to match.