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At Dateable we believe that great relationships are built not born.

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Our programs offer levels of integrated support for the key stages of creating your relationship to last.

Let us help you build your great relationship today.

d. essential:

The Strategic Package

Personal Insight • Expert Guidance

Built around the life-changing Strategy Session, our introductory package is a full service action plan with all the bells and whistles.

START HERE if you are ready to make real change, utilizing our dedicated expertise to benefit your relationship future.

The Strategy Session gives you the answers when you don’t know what you are missing, but you know you need to do something. It gets the dating ball rolling in the right direction with attention to the details that matter.

It is the go to break through process.  

If you are asking yourself; Do I hire a MM? Do I slug it out online? Wait for the fates?  How do I do it better? Am I getting in my own way? How do I avoid mistakes of the past? Where do I start and how do I feel safe doing it? 

The Strategic Package is your easy entry point to turning the tables on your relationship future. Take the 30 seconds of bravery that jump starts everything. Your future self will thank you for it, and so will the love of your life who is tapping their fingers and patiently awaiting your happy company.

Dateable couple drinking coffee in Bryant Park in Manhattan in New York City after Dateable Program.

d. essential:

The Strategic Package

Personal Insight • Expert Guidance

Dateable couple drinking coffee in Bryant Park in Manhattan in New York City after Dateable Program.

Personal Insight • Expert Guidance

Built around the life-changing Strategy Session, our introductory package is a full service action plan with all the bells and whistles.

START HERE if you are ready to make a real change, utilizing our dedicated expertise to benefit your relationship future.

The Strategy Session gives you the answers when you don’t know what you are missing, but you know you need to do something. It gets the dating ball rolling in the right direction with attention to the details that matter.

It is the go to break through process.  

If you are asking yourself; Do I hire a MM? Do I slug it out online? Wait for the fates?  How do I do it better? Am I getting in my own way? How do I avoid mistakes of the past? Where do I start and how do I feel safe doing it? 

The Strategic Package is your easy entry point to turning the tables on your relationship future. Take the 30 seconds of bravery that jump starts everything. Your future self will thank you for it, and so will the love of your life who is tapping their fingers and patiently awaiting your happy company.

How it Works:

We guide you through a process that shines light on your blind spots, changing how you understand and see yourself and how you approach your dating experience.

We discover your attraction profile, what you truly need versus what you think you need, but without sacrificing what you care about. We solve for what is getting in your way, your potential roadblocks and identify your greatest assets. We form a strategy to move you forward in the right direction, whether you work with us as your dating and relationship ally, or break out into the wild with newfound confidence and insight.   

A favourite launching pad of elite clients for the insight and confidence they derive from the experience, often resolving sticking points they weren’t aware were holding them back – and a favorite of clients who have simply worked too long and hard for their success to leave their love lives to chance.  

Take the quantum leap forward that makes the rest that much easier. Your future self will thank you for it, and so will the love of your life who is tapping their fingers and patiently awaiting your happy company. 

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What you get:

  • Comprehensive Dateable intake process.
  • Your one hour Strategy Session by Zoom or phone including a guided process with a trusted confidante and sounding board in your corner, providing validation, support, and insight.
  • Written report of your partnership needs, desires and important emotional insights illuminating the sweet spot between your needs and wants, fears and desires.
  • Support notes to use as a launching pad with our matchmakers providing important areas of focus; to be used with other Dateable programs, and your own personal reference.
  • Assessment insights including suggested strategies and considerations for navigating your path to happy healthy relationship based on your history and unique life circumstances.
  • Opportunity for email feedback and light revision.

$1095

*and the best news is that clients who have purchased a Strategic Package are given an opportunity to apply a $500 discount to our Relationship Readiness Package – just ask us for details!

What you get:

  • Comprehensive Dateable intake process.
  • Your one hour Strategy Session by Zoom or phone including a guided process with a trusted confidante and sounding board in your corner, providing validation, support, and insight.
  • Written report of your partnership needs, desires and important emotional insights illuminating the sweet spot between your needs and wants, fears and desires.
  • Support notes to use as a launching pad with our matchmakers providing important areas of focus; to be used with other Dateable programs, and your own personal reference.
  • Assessment insights including suggested strategies and considerations for navigating your path to happy healthy relationship based on your history and unique life circumstances.
  • Opportunity for email feedback and light revision.

$1095

And the best news is that clients who have purchased a Strategic Package are given an opportunity to apply a $500 discount to our Relationship Readiness Package – just ask us for details!

“I cannot believe how much better my life is – all of the pieces have been put back together.”

– “J” NFL FRANCHISE OWNER –

“Erin is our secret weapon. The strategy session has been our favorite go to for our high profile and celebrity clients, both to clarify their needs but also prepare them for a successful process, and to bring a force of insight to the team. We love hearing how seen and heard they feel, and how much more confident in their path forward they present after this process!”

– K.M. HEAD OF CLIENT SERVICES –

“I was so moved by how well she understood me that I knew I needed her in my relationship corner, and with her insightful guidance and support I am proud to say that I am now engaged to be married.”

– A.S. FOUNDER & CEO –

d. comprehensive:

Relationship Readiness

Personal Insight • Custom Profiling • Integrated Support

Dateable Matchmaking couple smiling on a date in New York City bar.

Personal Insight • Custom Profiling • Integrated Support

We love a wedding but standing at the altar in front of our families and friends and swearing that we’ll fulfill our promises and never ever give up, is a lot like making a new year’s resolution for the next twenty plus years; it sets up a lot of pressure to be our best and do our best without giving us the how-to or the support needed to excel in  a partnership long term.  

Dateable has created this five star signature masterclass to provide the insight, understanding and tools to create your partnership on a solid foundation, a dynamic for thriving and reaching your best potential rather than winging it or muscling through –which means greater joy in the good times, a deeper and easier solidarity through the challenging, and an abiding confidence in one another and the life you are creating together.  

An instructor lead intensive, the most profoundly impactful of twenty years of teachings are delivered over three months and twelve modules, each one building on the next with supporting materials and easy exercises that are eye opening and transformational, leveraging common relationship fault lines into pillars of strength that won’t fracture over time and under stress.

At Dateable, we create a world of romantic possibilities, giving you the ability to realize the love of your life.

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Our Curriculum:

  • Steering the Relation-ship; understanding what matters, why we want, and how to create a unified vision of a relationship future that we can build together 
  • The Romantic Glue; what is is, how to create it and how to keep it thriving 
  • Models of Partnership; how to move from adversarial to collaborative to championship 
  • Needs; how to understand yours, mine, and ours; what to expect & how to talk about them (whether you’re a talker or not) 
  • The Conversation: Understanding emotions, triggers, conflict resolution and prevention 
  • Gold Dress Blue Dress: What you need to know about attachment styles, love languages, personality profiles and playing to strengths  
  • Forks & Spoons; how to best leverage your emotional energy and support
  • Money; leveraging styles; serving your vision, creating room for growth 
  • The Bedroom; understanding libido, supporting intimacy, creating bedroom languages; growing passion 
  • Parenting and Family; Redefining parenting in a world of conflicting ideals; creating a shared vision; unique contributions in a dynamic of equals; blending basics; navigating the extended family 
  • Growing Together; building your relationship around disparate career paths; evolving the relationship story 
Image of Cherry Blossoms representing Dateable Programs curriculum in New York

Our Curriculum:

  • Steering the Relation-ship; understanding what matters, why we want, and how to create a unified vision of a relationship future that we can build together 
  • The Romantic Glue; what is is, how to create it and how to keep it thriving 
  • Models of Partnership; how to move from adversarial to collaborative to championship 
  • Needs; how to understand yours, mine, and ours; what to expect & how to talk about them (whether you’re a talker or not) 
  • The Conversation: Understanding emotions, triggers, conflict resolution and prevention 
  • Gold Dress Blue Dress: What you need to know about attachment styles, love languages, personality profiles and playing to strengths  
  • Forks & Spoons; how to best leverage your emotional energy and support
  • Money; leveraging styles; serving your vision, creating room for growth 
  • The Bedroom; understanding libido, supporting intimacy, creating bedroom languages; growing passion 
  • Parenting and Family; Redefining parenting in a world of conflicting ideals; creating a shared vision; unique contributions in a dynamic of equals; blending basics; navigating the extended family 
  • Growing Together; building your relationship around disparate career paths; evolving the relationship story

What you get:

  • Intake discovery process and review (to best understand your needs and make most of your private support time) 
  • 12 modules of instructional materials and easy to follow exercises 
  • Six one hour private discussion based support sessions (by zoom or phone scheduled bi-weekly) 
  • Session review and written follow up 
  • Interim email and text support for those things that just can’t wait 

$4995

And the best news is that clients who have purchased a Strategic Package are given an opportunity to apply a $500 discount to our Relationship Readiness Package – just ask us for details!

Little girl opening present representing what you get in Dateable Programs
Little girl opening present representing what you get in Dateable Programs

What you get:

  • Intake discovery process and review (to best understand your needs and make most of your private support time) 
  • 12 modules of instructional materials and easy to follow exercises 
  • Six one hour private discussion based support sessions (by zoom or phone scheduled bi-weekly) 
  • Session review and written follow up 
  • Interim email and text support for those things that just can’t wait 

$1095

And the best news is that clients who have purchased a Strategic Package are given an opportunity to apply a $500 discount to our Relationship Readiness Package – just ask us for details!

“Erin is our secret weapon. The strategy session has been our favorite go to for our high profile and celebrity clients, both to clarify their needs but also prepare them for a successful process, and to bring a force of insight to the team. We love hearing how seen and heard they feel, and how much more confident in their path forward they present after this process!”

– K.M. HEAD OF CLIENT SERVICES –

“OMG this brought me to tears. I don’t think I’ve ever felt this seen and understood in my life. Thank you Erin. I am so grateful for you.”

– H.W. CEO –

“The quality of interest I get in my online dating process has improved dramatically since using my custom profile. I meet men who are actually aligned with me and take the time to engage with me and invest.”

– K.J. MANAGING DIRECTOR –