dateable provides matchmaking and relationship coaching for executives and professionals

dateable is the right way to do matchmaking and avoid the apps with smart dating

It’s that third date feeling.

When you can’t stop smiling, and you think to yourself, I might really like them. The secret is that we want to fall head over heels. And that’s not a bad thing.

We aren’t here to go through life alone. You know you’re meant to find your person and live a bigger, better laughter filled life.

Dateable is here to help.

Dateable couple looking in each others eyes.

But… you want to get it right this time.

Your relationship is a serious investment.

You don’t want to waste years of your life.

You don’t want to repeat bad patterns.

You know it’s time, but you don’t want the struggle of endless swiping. The games and uncertainty. The putting your heart on the line for someone who isn’t who they say they are, who doesn’t show up.

You know that a relationship is integral to your life, career success, family wellness, happiness, and enjoyment of all that you have worked for.

 

But.. You Want To Get It Right This Time.

Your relationship is a serious investment.

You don’t want to waste years of your life.

You don’t want to repeat bad patterns.

You know it’s time, but you don’t want the struggle of endless swiping. The games and uncertainty. The putting your heart on the line for someone who isn’t who they say they are, who doesn’t show up.

You know that a relationship is integral to your life, career success, family wellness, happiness, and enjoyment of all that you have worked for.

Dateable husband and wife embracing and smiling.

We get it.

Your relationship can become your greatest asset

…with our help

You want a better way. You want to be intentional and get rid of the messiness. You want to date successful, intentional people. You want better insight, and actual tools to build a thriving relationship.

These are the conversations Dateable matchmakers have with incredible people every day. We help accomplished individuals find their great love or start a family now, avoiding years of heartache and letdown.

You need a professional to guide you through the murky waters of modern dating

We’ve got you.

Dateable has been helping smart, dazzling, accomplished, creative people for over twenty years. We help you, who has so much to share, find a relationship the better way. From that first text, to where you should meet, when to say I love you, all to the big I do.

What if you had a trusted team connecting you with other amazing individuals that are just as serious as you about finding a relationship as you are.

With expert guidance accessible at a moments notice.

Ways to Work With Dateable

to start meeting the right dates today

Gain clarity & insight with

The Strategic Package

Your private one on one guided think tank & personal roadmap for breaking the circuit, taking back your power, and charting course with the clarity and insight of expert support. Built around our Strategy Session, this is the “must do” to get the dating ball rolling. With a reputation for building confidence and getting a relationship journey kickstarted and elevated, start here.

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Become Dateable ~ Meet Dateable with

Dateable Matchmaking

Get it right this time with Dateable matchmaking packages that offer elite curated introductions along with a full spectrum of image consulting, photography, and private coaching, elevated by a culture of smart and savvy dating.

With an expansive network of exceptional singles across North America, matchmaking is our bread and butter. Whether you’re eager to start a family, or ready to finally share the fruits of your labor with a last best love, Dateable is the place where willing meets ready and able.

Transform your life with

Private Coaching

Deep confidential support tailored to your needs, your unique history, around the demands of your lifestyle. We’re in your corner, undoing the knots, the crossed wiring, We are there for the deep dive that heals your old wounds, the falling in love with your best self and shining that out to the world. We have you in our minds, our hearts, our pockets on our daily run. You have us on speed dial. You can text us from the bathroom on date #1 and we’ll be front row at your destination wedding.

We have helped thousands of clients break out of dating groundhog day and realize healthy thriving relationships and we will sleep so soundly knowing we have made the difference for you.

Illustration of Dateable employee on the phone with a client.

Ways to Work With Dateable

to start meeting the right dates today

Gain clarity & insight with

The Strategic Package

Illustration of Dateable session notes with a typewriter. ivy, and coffee.

Your private one on one guided think tank & personal roadmap for breaking the circuit, taking back your power, and charting course with the clarity and insight of expert support. Built around our Strategy Session, this is the “must do” to get the dating ball rolling. With a reputation for building confidence and getting a relationship journey kickstarted and elevated, start here.

Become Dateable ~ Meet Dateable with

Dateable Matchmaking

Illustration of Dateable location in San Francisco

Get it right this time with Dateable matchmaking packages that offer elite curated introductions along with a full spectrum of image consulting, photography, and private coaching, elevated by a culture of smart and savvy dating.

With an expansive network of exceptional singles across North America, matchmaking is our bread and butter. Whether you’re eager to start a family, or ready to finally share the fruits of your labor with a last best love, Dateable is the place where willing meets ready and able.

Transform your life with

Private Coaching

Illustration of Dateable employee on the phone with a client.

Deep confidential support tailored to your needs, your unique history, around the demands of your lifestyle. We’re in your corner, undoing the knots, the crossed wiring, We are there for the deep dive that heals your old wounds, the falling in love with your best self and shining that out to the world. We have you in our minds, our hearts, our pockets on our daily run. You have us on speed dial. You can text us from the bathroom on date #1 and we’ll be front row at your destination wedding.

We have helped thousands of clients break out of dating groundhog day and realize healthy thriving relationships and we will sleep so soundly knowing we have made the difference for you.

Dateable CEO Taking Notes During  Session

I’m Erin Butler,

and i created dateable to help you

Outsmart the garbage, conflict, and even your own surprising baggage that can pop up while dipping your toes back into dating world.

Connect with other mature accomplished individuals LIKE YOU who want an intentional no BS approach to relationships.

Invest your precious energy and time in building the thriving relationship you deserve, with a solid foundation and the real time support to make it stick.

So that you can breathe out and let yourself enjoy the sweeter things, knowing you’re doing everything right this time.

fall in love with dating again.

Dateable CEO Taking Notes During A Session.

and i created dateable to help you

Outsmart the garbage, conflict, and even your own surprising baggage that can pop up while dipping your toes back into dating world.

Connect with other mature accomplished individuals LIKE YOU who want an intentional no BS approach to relationships.

Invest your precious energy and time in building the thriving relationship you deserve, with a solid foundation and the real time support to make it stick.

So that you can breathe out and let yourself enjoy the sweeter things, knowing you’re doing everything right this time.

fall in love with dating again.

 “Erin completely transformed my entire relationship mindset.She’s so effortlessly intuitive!”

 

Sarah – Fortune 500 CFO

We’ve Been There.

And so have thousands upon thousands of others who are looking to opt out of old patterns, stop swiping, and meet the quality dates they deserve. We know that lasting relationships are built off key pillars of comptiblity and intent.

You don’t have to be perfect to meet the one, and you don’t have to have all of the answers to take back charge today.

All you need is to take the first steps.

We’ll do the rest of the work.

We know what you want deep down, and we’re here to help you find it, without sacrificing your sanity or your best years.

We’re just that into you.

Image of Dateable offices in the Financial District in San Francisco

We’ve been there.

And so have thousands upon thousands of others who are looking to opt out of old patterns, stop swiping, and meet the quality dates they deserve. We know that lasting relationships are built off key pillars of comptiblity and intent.

You don’t have to be perfect to meet the one, and you don’t have to have all of the answers to take back charge today.

All you need is to take the first steps.

We’ll do the rest of the work.

We know what you want deep down, and we’re here to help you find it, without sacrificing your sanity or your best years.

We’re just that into you.